Bible Encouragement For Fathers

Proverbs 23:24 “The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.”


What does God’s Word have to say to father’s?  The following verses give some clear concise instruction:

To Teach

Deuteronomy 6:7

You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up.

Deuteronomy 4:9


“Only give heed to yourself and keep your soul diligently, so that you do not forget the things which your eyes have seen and they do not depart from your heart all the days of your life; but make them known to your sons and your grandsons.

Isaiah 38:19

A father tells his sons about Your faithfulness.

                                                          To Train

Proverbs 22:6


Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it.

Proverbs 22:15

Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of discipline will remove it far from him.

To Provide

2 Corinthians 12:14


Children are not responsible to save up for their parents, but parents for their children.

2 Thessalonians 3:10

If anyone is not willing to work, then he is not to eat, either.

1 Timothy 5:8

But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

To Nurture and Love

Ephesians 6:4

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Colossians 3:21

Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart.

To Discipline and Control

1 Timothy 3:4

He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity.

 Proverbs 29:17

 Correct your son, and he will give you comfort; He will also delight your soul.

Examples of Godly Fathers:

Job prays for his children Job 1:5

When the days of feasting had completed their cycle, Job would send and consecrate them, rising up early in the morning and offering burnt offerings according to the number of them all; for Job said, “Perhaps my sons have sinned and cursed God in their hearts.” Thus Job did continually.

Joshua’s commitment, Joshua 24:15

“As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

Abraham’s faithfulness, Genesis 18:19

For I have chosen him, so that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the Lord by doing righteousness and justice. 

David’s charge to Solomon, 1 Kings 2:1-3


As David’s time to die drew near, he charged Solomon his son, saying,  “I am going the way of all the earth. Be strong, therefore, and show yourself a man.  Keep the charge of the Lord your God, to walk in His ways, to keep His statutes, His commandments, His ordinances, and His testimonies,according to what is written in the Law of Moses.”

Zacharias Godly example, Luke 1:6

They were both righteous in the sight of God, walking blamelessly in all the commandments and requirements of the Lord.

 If your heart’s desire is to be a good father, to follow God’s plan and will for raising your children, then don’t be discouraged over your failures.  Children know when you are sincere; they know if you love them or not; they know if your motives are selfish or not, and they overlook and rise above it all.
 Remember: I Corinthians 16:13-14
“Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.”
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A Letter To A Father From His Son

For This I Am Proud of You 

The Lord Jesus said we are to love the Lord our God with all of our heart, soul, strength, and mind.
This I have seen with my childhood family on our knees around an old footrest.
This I have seen as I rode to work with you in your pickup truck many summer mornings
This I have been blessed to see in numerous Bible studies since Katrina.
You have held dear this greatest of commandments in too many ways to mention here.
Daddy, I am proud of you for this.
The Lord Jesus said we are to love others.
This I have seen in your friendliness and honest desires to connect with all people.
This I have seen in your sincere strivings to “put yourself in the other person’s shoes.”
This I have been blessed to see my entire life in your empathy for the elderly.
Your have held dear this second greatest commandment in so many other ways.
Daddy, I am proud of you for this.
A Psalm asks, “Who can find a faithful man?”
This I have seen my whole life in your commitment to God, Country and Family.
This I have been blessed to see in your persistent actions as well as heard in your consistent words.
This I have seen in you as a dependable and reliable construction worker (has to be a rare find),
     your constant & unfailing dedication to family and your steady & unswerving desire to do right.
For this your faithfulness, reliability, and trustworthiness, I am proud of you.
Daddy, you are that faithful man.
A Proverb encourages a man to walk in integrity.
This I have seen in the method you taught us to accurately weigh a bushel of purple hull peas.
This I have seen (and I believe the example very fitting) in your careful and meticulous craftsmanship.
This I have seen more clearly than most because integrity in little things is not usually seen by the world.
For this your integrity, sincerity and uprightness of heart, I am proud of you.
Daddy, I am sure the Lord will say, “Well done.”
The Lord requires much of those who are given much.
I have received so much in the example of a true father, that my only option is to beg for mercy.
Because of unpleasant experiences, many people cannot associate God’s love with a father’s love.
I have never had this problem.
This fantastic mixture of consistent firmness and immense compassion, I have seen in you.
For this, I am proud of you.
With all love and respect, Carlos Jr to my dad, Carlos Sr

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Godliness With Contentment

Haggai 1:6-7  “Ye have sown much, and bring in little; ye eat, but ye have not enough; ye drink, but ye are not filled with drink, ye clothe you, but there is none warm; and he that earneth wages earneth wages to put it into a bag with holes.”

     Amazing, isn’t it, how relevant these words are for us today?  Yet think how many years ago they were written.  Just look around at people today, they are striving, striving, striving and yet they want more, more, more.  The more they have, the more they want.  There never is a time when they are satisfied or content.  Our materialistic age even has many many Christians caught up in its web.  God’s Word tells us in I Timothy 6:6, “But godliness with contentment is great gain.”  Also, Hebrews 13:5a gives us the following instructions, “Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have.”
   Now read the devotional Scripture verse for today again.  We can learn another lesson from it: a lesson that is portrayed so vividly and in such figurative language.  Here we picture a man eagerly putting a large handful of coins into a bag.  He has worked hard throughout the week for those coins.  Much effort, time and sweat has been expended for his gain.  He continues saving each week for a while; carefully putting the coins in the bag.  One day he sits down to count his coins.  His heart is merry and he happily envisions the great sum he must now have accumulated.  But alas, when the bag is opened, there are but a few coins!  What has happened to all his work and effort?  Why are there not more coins?  Surely he put more in the bag?  Carefully he examines the bag hoping that somehow he will discover his coins.  But to his utter disappointment he finds holes!  Holes!  The coins have slipped through the holes in the bottom of the bag and are gone.
     Hard work is necessary and commanded by God’s Word, (“if any would not work, neither should he eat,”  II Thessalonians 3:10) but such is the outcome of our efforts when we put too much value on the coins themselves.  How many of us have the paycheck spent even before we get it?  How many of us spend more than we make?  The harder we work, the more quickly the money disappears and it’s like a vicious cycle that never ends. We can earn much but it will never be enough if we are not content and satisfied with what the Lord provides.  God will supply the coins needed, at the time we need them.  Like the manna—-it was on the ground each morning.  Kept manna spoiled— likewise, coveted earthly things spoil and do not bring contentment.  God will give enough for our daily need as we trust Him.  And when we wait on the Lord, and ask Him to bless our work; when we are careful and content with what the Lord gives us; He’ll make a little go a long way. God will supply our need ! 
The Better Way: Trusting In The Lord With Contentment Is the Best Way
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Training Children

“Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old, he won’t depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6

What a wonderful promise in God’s Word!  It’s so very encouraging to know that the Lord will bless our efforts to train our children, even though at times you may shake your head and wearily wonder if it’s worth all the effort. As a mother of four grown children who all profess Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, I can assure you without a doubt that it’s worth every bit of energy it takes to train your children correctly.  And as I look back, I know it’s all by the Grace of God, because I see so many areas where I failed.
As I read the above verse, I had a desire to study the word “train” and the words “the way he should go” and was amazed and edified as these words were expanded, enhanced and their message became fuller.  Dwelling on their meanings can give us more awareness of the very great responsibility of training children. I will share with you the following material and ask you to pray for the Holy Spirit to glean the wisdom you need to train your children.
The dictionary has several excellent meanings of the word train:
1. Teach a particular skill or type of behavior through practice and instruction over a period of time; propagate wisdom.
2. Cause to be sharp, discerning or developed as a result of instruction or practice
3. Cause to grow in a particular direction
4. Instruct, teach, coach, tutor, educate, drill, ground, prepare, direct
5. Train physically and mentally
6. Keep under discipline
Then God’s Word says in Ephesians 6:4b “Rear them (tenderly) in the training and discipline and the counsel and admonition of the Lord.”  (Amplified Bible)
Matthew Henry says in his commentary,” Train up a child according as he is capable with a gentle hand–little and often. Take care and pains. As soldiers- to observe the word of command.”
Concerning the words “the way he should go” there are several wonderful quotes:
Matthew Henry says “not in the way they would go, but should go.”
The Amplified Bible says “and in keeping with his individual gift or bent.”
Pastor/Teacher John MacArthur says: “There is only one right way, God’s way, the way of life.  Early training secures life-long habits. Parents must insist upon this way; teach God’s Word, enforcing it with loving discipline consistently throughout the child’s upbringing.”
A wonderful example of this training in the Bible was Timothy. He was taught the Holy Scriptures from childhood.  II Timothy 3:15
An example of the lack of training in the Bible would be David’s son Absalom, II Samuel chapters 13-18.
      As you can see, the process of training starts from birth and continues on until the child is grown.  It is not a one time event, but requires close careful instruction and discipline on an on-going basis. If you’ve ever wondered why your child can’t learn something after you’ve told them over and over again, just look at your own life.  How much do we fail in our obedience to God on a daily basis?  As God so patiently and lovingly deals with us, so must we show that same patience and forbearance with our children.
For more Biblical direction in the area of training, carefully study the following Scriptures:
Proverbs 13:24, Deuteronomy 4:9, Deuteronomy  6:6-8, Deuteronomy 11:18-21, Proverbs 19:18, Proverbs 22:15, Proverbs 23:13-14, Proverbs 29:15, 17, Proverbs 3:11-12, Hebrews 12:7
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Two Faithful Women

Exodus 1:17 “But the midwives feared God.”

A few years ago I embarked on a two year journey to read through the Bible again. Traveling from Genesis into Exodus, two names  suddenly appeared on the printed page—two names recorded no where else in the Bible, two obscure names, two names of women.  How important are these two women who have their names written in God’s Word?
Further study reveals Shiphrah and Puah were midwives, women who assisted in the birth of the babies of the Hebrew women. Most likely they were older women and the representatives of their profession.  During their time in Egypt, the Children of Israel grew greatly in number and strength and Pharaoh felt threatened and became fearful.   In an attempt to curtail their growth he ordered the midwives to kill all Hebrew boys at birth.  Instead of being the ones who were looked up to for their skill and were trusted to take great care in seeing that the lives of these babies were preserved, they were suddenly thrusted into the position of being executioners, deceitful and untrustworthy.  These two women who “feared God,” refused to obey such a law. They reverenced God and obeyed Him rather than man. Exodus 1:17. “They obviously understood that children were a gift from God and that murder was wrong.” (John MacArthur) Like the apostles in Acts 5:29 who said, “We must obey God rather than men,” these midwives had the courage to stand alone and do what was right. 
Shiphrah and Puah were ordinary women who devoutly did their humble job, and yet they were used of God to preserve and save a nation that the King of Egypt desired to suppress.  Do you have a desire to serve God?  Whatever role God has given you to perform in this life, do it faithfully and obediently with love and care and God will bless.  In fact, as we read on in the story, we see where it says that God looked favorably on the midwives.  Exodus 1:20 says, “Therefore, God dealt well with the midwives,” and verse 21 says, “Because the midwives feared God, He established households for them.”  God built them up into families, blessed their children, and prospered them in what they did.  
What a wonderful example these two midwives are to us to be obedient.  God’s Word tells us in Ecclesiastes 9:10, “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might…”  Again God’s Word says, “Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father.”  Colossians 3:17  Enjoy your work, finding pleasure in it as you honor God and are used for His purpose. 
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Hannah, Full of Grace

I Samuel 1:2 “The name of one was Hannah.”  

 As we study the women of the Bible, we are drawn to I Samuel, and a woman named Hannah, who exemplifies many attributes of a wife and mother that we should try to follow and a woman who was greatly used by God.
We first find, that she was in a situation that we know nothing about and a position that I would never want to be in—-she was one of two wives of a man named Elkanah.  Involved in this circumstance we learn she had an advantage—-her husband loved her best, and a disadvantage—-she had no children, “for the Lord had closed her womb.” I Samuel 1:5.   But as we travel through the story, we see that the Lord, in His wisdom, was working out His great and marvelous plan to raise up a great prophet, and was using this humble woman to bring about His purpose.  You see, Hannah was “greatly distressed and wept bitterly”, I Samuel 1:10, because she had no children and to make matters worse her “rival would provoke her bitterly to irritate her.” I Samuel 1:6
But Hannah did what all of us should always do in our distress—she prayed and sought the Lord.  Brought to her lowest point in life, she made a vow no loving mother could make under normal circumstances. ” O Lord of hosts, if You will indeed look on the affliction of Your maidservant and remember me, and not forget Your maidservant, but will give Your maidservant a son, then I will give him to the Lord all the days of his life…” I Sam 1:11.  This is exactly according to God’s plan: for Hannah to be brought to such agony of soul that she might make such a extraordinary vow in order to raise up the prophet Samuel to lead the people of Israel.
After Samuel was born, Hannah was a dedicated mother, diligently teaching him about the Lord, nurturing and implanting in him the Scriptures, during those first three years of his life until he was weaned. Oh how she must have savored every moment with her beloved son. Then fulfilling her vow, she carried him to the temple and “dedicated him to the Lord.”  I Samuel 1:28.  But instead of weeping and crying over leaving Samuel, she sang a song of thanksgiving, I Samuel 2:1-10 rejoicing and exalting the Lord, giving God all the glory . I know you will enjoy reading these verses for yourself.  Later, Hannah was rewarded by the Lord for her faithfulness in carrying out her vow, for God graciously gave her five more children.
As a wife, Hannah exemplifies trustworthiness, for her husband safely trusted in her and honored the vow she had made, saying “Do what seems best to you…..only may the Lord confirm His word.” I Samuel 1:23.   Let us prayerfully and carefully desire to follow Hannah’s example, that we too, may be used of the Lord for His honor and glory.
The Better Way: Being A Humble, Prayerful, Dedicated, Thankful, Faithful, Trustworthy Wife and Mother is the Better Way
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Life-Giving Sound

I Corinthians 14:7-8  “And even things without life giving sound whether pipe or harp except they give a distinction in the sounds, how shall it be known what is piped or harped?  For if the trumpet give an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself to the battle?”

     Music is a great part of our lives.  There are many many different types of music and an endless variety of combinations of sounds.  I don’t think that anyone could ever say that there are no new songs to be written, for there will always be a new combination of notes and instruments that can be composed into a song.  One reason for this fact is that each instrument has its own distinct sound.  Some time in the past I attended an orchestra performance and became keenly aware of how important each individual instrument was to the combined sound.  Even though there were many violins to create fullness, perhaps there was only one flute, or one piccolo, or one harp or oboe.  But when it came time for that one instrument to play, no other instrument could have taken it’s place.  Why?  Because that instrument had a distinct sound that was needed at that moment that no other instrument could make.
     In our Bible verse for today, Paul is pointing out that even an instrument that is “without life” gives out a distinct sound: that if a trumpet (which has no life) did not sound forth its own unique tone no one would know when to go forth to the battle.  Now compare this to us who are not dead; who have life, who live and breathe.  What kind of sound do we make?  What kind of witness are we for the Lord?  A pastor we once knew said, “When you witness do not give an uncertain sound—-give a certain (true) sound by word and action.”  Our words concerning the Lord Jesus Christ are to be distinct— not vague, clear— not hazy, positive— not uncertain; or “how shall it be known what is piped or harped?”   How shall others know what we believe or perhaps even IF we believe if we are not certain ourselves?  
     First of all, let us be certain that we do know Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior.  Then once we are His child, we need to richly fill our hearts and lives with the Word of God so that the sound of our witness and of our lives will be so distinct that as the trumpet sends forth the battle cry, so our words and actions will sound forth the love of God to a lost and dying world.
Theme: The Better Way: Speaking About God is Good, Sounding Forth the Love of God is Better
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Joy in Work

Ephesians 2:10 “For we are his workmanship created in Christ Jesus unto good works…

     Lord, let me meditate on that verse a few more minutes. As a wife and mother, I’ve been so busy with my everyday tasks:  housework, cooking, cleaning, washing, running errands, grocery shopping, taking children to the Dr and orthodontist, planning events, etc. besides the enormous task of watching and training my children and helping my husband. But God’s Word says that I am created for “good works.”  Are these “good works?”
     This a question each of us must answer for ourselves because in order to determine if these are “good works” the motive must be examined and the manner or spirit in which they are carried out must be observed.  
The Bible says, “Seek ye first the kingdom of God..”  Matthew 6:33.  The activities of our daily lives are necessary and God has ordained them as a means of carrying on life, but our reasons for carrying out these activities should not be for self but for the Lord.  “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.”  I Corinthians 10:31. A spirit of anxiety, stress and aggravation is not God’s Way.   The daily routine and sometimes dull chores of our lives are “good works” but they take on a new worth and meaning when we realize the Lord is pleased and that the job we’re doing is His Will.
      Secondly, we need to observe the manner or spirit in which these works are carried out. To find our answer, we can go straight to Galatians 5: 22-23,  “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. “  Faithfulness with joy in carrying out our daily duties can bring us much peace and contentment.  
     This day let us ask the Lord for grace to live a life of good works as we cultivate a joyful attitude so that He might receive much honor and glory.
Theme:  The Better Way:  Work is Good, Joyful Work is Better.
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Under His Wings

Psalm 91:4  “He shall cover thee with His feathers, and under His wings shalt thou trust.”

    This story is an incident from the past:
     Standing at my kitchen window I can look straight at the house across the street.  One day our youngest daughter was standing beside me chatting about her plans for the day when suddenly she said, “Look Mama!”  When I looked up, I saw a cat crouched down on the neighbors roof which over-looked a large bush.  In fact, as we watched, the cat began to lean off the edge of the roof, stretching it’s paw downward toward the bush.  At that time we had not noticed any other animals near-by.  Suddenly from out of nowhere a bird swooped down toward the cat as if to attack him.  At this, the cat jumped back from his intended attack and we realized that there must be a nest with baby birds in the bush.  Continuing to watch we now saw a second bird.  At first, the cat did not leave.  He persistently continued to slowly creep toward the edge of the roof.  But each time he began to lean over and stretch his paw toward the bush, one of the birds would swoop down and make the cat jump back.  Eventually he gave up.
    This incident brought to mind the wonderful care and protection of our Heavenly Father for His children.  First, in I Peter 5:8 we learn that “.…your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:”  Just like that cat, old Satan prowls around, ready to attack God’s child to make him falter and fall.  For if Satan can ruin our witness as a Christian, he can render us useless for God’s work.   But there is no need to faint or fear, for God’s promises are sure and steadfast.  Satan cannot devour us.  Psalm 34:7 says, “the angel of the Lord encampeth round about them that fear Him, and delivereth them.”  Yes, we shall be delivered because “there shall not a hair of your head perish.”  Luke 21:18
    What wonderful assurances we have been given of God’s divine care.  Those baby birds were safe because their parents protected them from attack and then carefully covered them with their wings.  Even so “under His wings shalt thou trust.”  Then we can boldly say as Paul says in II Timothy 4:18 “and the Lord shall deliver me from every evil work, and will preserve me unto His heavenly kingdom: to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.”
Theme: The Better Way: Knowing God’s Promises is Good, Trusting God’s Promises is Better
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Apple of God’s Eye

Zechariah 2:8b “….for He that toucheth you toucheth the apple of His eye.”

     A round shiny apple!  Doesn’t it make you smile just picturing a little boy proudly presenting such a gift to his favorite teacher?  The apple is so perfectly polished that it creates a glint in the eye of the beholder; thus a look in his eye that says. “you are so remarkable to me that I want to give you this special apple.”  
     We see that same look in the eye of a mother and father as they behold their children.  Each child is special and raises a feeling of pride.   As we look upon each child there’s a certain glint in our eye that says, “You are significant, you are precious to me; I will always cherish you.”  Such is the comparison God’s Word makes for each child of God: “the apple of His eye.”  How special we must be to Him; how precious we must be to Him.  What a wonderful position we hold in our Heavenly Father’s eye.  This thought should bring great security because we know we will always be cared for.
     Dear Christian woman, wife, or mother, are you carrying a heavy burden?  Do you feel lonely? unloved? uncared for?  Well then—-look up!  There you will behold that glint in your Heavenly Father’s eye, and when you see that, your burdened spirit will be lifted.  Then you will realize that “all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose.” Romans 8:28.  Now our wishes and desires are not concentrated on self but on pleasing the One to whom we are so special.  Oh, how I desire to be so careful to please my Lord, that I never cause that special look to dim or become saddened.
      But perhaps the reader is not “in Christ” and you are saying to yourself.  “I want to hold such a special position in God’s eye.”  Well, come to Christ, repenting of your sin and believing that He died on the cross for you, for He says ” I will in no wise cast out.”  John 6:37.
The Better Way: Always Seek To Please God First
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A Journey of God’s Faithfulness

Psalm 118:17 “I shall not die, but live and declare the works of the LORD.”

It was six years ago today, February 20, 2014 that my special “Journey of God’s Faithfulness” began. Being a rather healthy person, thoughts of any serious medical problems rarely entered my mind.

Then suddenly and without warning at the young age (what I consider young) of sixty-six, I had a brain bleed, a hemorrhagic stroke and I learned “How frail I am.” Psalm 39:4. It affected the right side of my body leaving me 90% helpless and numb, unlike some strokes which cause paralysis. Now starts the thanksgiving part. Unlike some strokes——-since all strokes are not the same and all strokes affect different parts of the body, I can thankfully say that my speech, swallowing and facial muscles were not affected. Psalm 63:3 “Because thy lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise thee.”

During these past years I have felt God’s presence and peace carry me through therapies that taught me how to walk again, (God made our brains so they can learn a new path) a precious husband and family who stood faithfully by my side, lovingly caring for me, and a church family and friends who visited, provided food and prayed for us. Psalm 71:16 “ I will go in the strength of the Lord God.”

I have also seen God open doors for my husband and I to witness to others about Jesus Christ —-people that we would never have met otherwise. It’s such a joy to be used by the Lord. God’s plans are always good and right. Isaiah 58:8 “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord.”

And so on this special day, since God allowed me not only to live but restored me almost to my former health, I want to remember all His goodness, declare it to others and praise Him for all He has done and is doing in the lives of my husband and myself. Isaiah 40:31 “But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.”

So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” – 2 Corinthians 4:16-18
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A Testimony Of God’s Saving Grace

Psalm 40:1-3  “I waitedpatiently for the LORD; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry.  He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay and set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings.  And He hath put a new song in my mouth, even praise unto our God: many shall see it, and fear, and shall trust in the LORD.”

Forty five years ago, in July of 1976, that is exactly what the Lord did for me—–He saved me. He showed me that I was a sinner in need of a Savior and gave me new heart (Ezekiel 36:26). He washed me in the blood of Jesus Christ, my Lord and Savior (Revelations 1:5). 
I was raised in a religious home.  Our family consisted of my father and mother and a sister who was three years older than myself. Since my father was a pastor, we were involved in all aspects of church life.  I grew up wanting to be “good.”  I wanted to please my parents.  I liked helping other people and doing things for them. I wanted to please others, but this attitude, which was not wrong in itself, also filled me with pride and I thought I was “good” enough to go to heaven.
Oh yes, I believed that Jesus Christ died on the cross and was our Saviour, so I thought I was saved, but my good works were not the result of my salvation, but something I did to make sure my salvation was complete.  That’s where I was one day—lost; lost but I did not know it until the Holy Spirit opened the eyes of my heart to see my dreadful condition.
It began when at the age of 27, we were listening to a preacher on the radio and the preacher said, “If you can’t go back to a time when you’ve seen yourself a lost sinner, you’re not saved.”  For the Bible says in Luke 19:10 “The Son of Man is come to seek and to save that which was lost.” “Oh,” I said to myself, “what does that mean?” And so the search began to find a time when I saw myself “lost.”  
    Surely is was when I was at church camp as a young girl, and looked up at the wonder of the night sky and thought how much I loved God—no— that’s not being “lost.”  Or was it when I was so troubled about the distress of my stuttering problem and slept with a picture of Jesus under my pillow—no—that’s not being “lost.”  Certainly my desire to be a missionary must be it.  After all I loved to sing the wonderful hymn, “I Love To Tell The Story”—no, that’s not being “lost.”  Over a period of about a year, the Holy Spirit searched my heart and then that same sermon was played again on the radio, and I heard those same words again, “If you can’t go back to a time in your life when you’ve seen yourself a lost sinner, then you’re not saved,” I shook my head and said, “Well then, I’m not saved.”
At that time, I was active the the church teaching Sunday School.  Secretly, I told myself, “I won’t tell anyone, and continue on as normal and then when God saves me, everything will be just as it always was.”  Well, God had other plans for me.  Our then seven year old son became very sick with pneumonia and I was very concerned for him.  So while we were in the hospital, I promised the Lord  I would go before the church and tell everyone that I was not saved and resign my teaching position if He would heal our son.
     Well, our son was healed and then came the time for me to fulfill my promise.  The Holy Spirit pricked my heart one Sunday and all pride was gone as I went before the church to tell them I was not saved and I was resigning my position as Sunday School teacher.  It was very humbling, but that was exactly what I needed.  The Lord was working in my life to show me the sinful wretched condition of my heart, despite my outward appearance of “good.”  I began to see the pride, the vanity, the selfishness, the stubbornness, my disobedience, my jealousy, my evil thoughts and I began to seek “repentance toward God and faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ. Acts 20:21.  I saw there was no good in me “There is none righteous, no not one.” Romans 3:10.  I saw that all my good deeds were nothing but “filthy rags.” Isaiah 64:6.  And I began to see what a helpless hopeless sinful state I was in.  “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23.  Then I began to seek Jesus Christ and His mercy.  But I was brought even lower to my knees in my helpless condition when I came to see that I couldn’t just demand that God save me and even though I wanted Christ and His salvation, I must submit to the supreme sovereign will of Almighty God. 
     Laying all at His feet, but repenting and seeking Christ, one glorious day the Holy Spirit revealed to my heart that because of Christ’s work on the cross, He can save me and did save me.  I believed He came “to seek and to save.”  I believed that “Jesus Christ came into the world to save sinners.”
I Timothy 1:15.  Yes, I was “born again.” John 3:3 
I once was blind but now I see.” John 9:25.
 I have passed from “death unto life.” 
from “lost to found.”
from “blindness to sight.”
from “chains to freedom.”
from “darkness to light.”
    How I rejoice that Christ has redeemed and justified me forever.  Romans 8:1 says “There is therefore now no condemnation to those which are in Christ Jesus.”  I am now free, not free to sin ( I still sin because I live in this sinful flesh) but free to live for the Lord Jesus Christ, who loved me and gave Himself for me. Through God’s grace and strength I desire to continually say as Paul said in Galatians 6:14 “God forbid that I should glory save in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ.”
My husband came under conviction about the same time I did. His story is very similar to mine, and he was saved shortly after I was.
The Better Way:  Jesus Said, “I Am The Way The Truth And The Life. No Man Cometh Unto The Father But By Me.” John 14:6
See also: Adopted By God
See also: Forgiveness
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Commitment For The New Year

Daniel 1:8 “Daniel purposed in his heart….

 Five years ago I made a two year commitment to read through the Bible using a Two Year Bible Reading Plan.  When I started, two years seemed like a long time but now it has already come to a close. Just think, if you had purposed to follow a three year Bible reading plan, you would already be completed, and if you had purposed to follow a four year plan you would now also be through.  
     Time has a way of passing more quickly than you think.  Don’t waste it saying “Later, Later.”  Purpose in your heart to make a commitment to start January 1st, 2020 to follow some type of daily Bible reading, making yourself accountable.  Checking off a list kept me on track and kept me from getting too far behind. (Yes, I was not always on track !)
    Two years was just right for this grandma/great-grandma, but a three or four year plan will probably be better for you very busy moms with children. Reading the Bible should not cause stress and make you frustrated. Here is a link to one of those plans:
Print this out and cut it in bookmark size strips to place in your Bible.  Store the other 3 years in another pocket of your Bible.  You’ll be surprised at how quickly 4 years pass by 
If this plan does not fit your desires, many more plans are available, through other sites on the internet. The MacArthur Daily Bible at (read through the Bible in a year) is good.  Remember, if you overcommit, you might fail and feel guilty.  Be sensible and prudent.  It’s better to read a little of the Bible than not to read anything at all. 


What are a few of the blessings?
1. The joy of watching God’s great plan of salvation unfold from Genesis to Revelations.
2. Reading books of the Bible I might not have read, or don’t read much. These books were a blessing and I found passages of Scripture to underline in each one.
3. Learning more and more how much God cares for us as individuals.
4. Being reminded that God uses all types and kind of people.
5. Seeing the longsuffering of God.
6. Seeing the judgement of God.
     Remember, every book in the Bible was written by the inspiration of God and has a purpose and reason for being in the Bible.  
Perhaps you have just finished reading through the Bible, then set for yourself a new goal, a new plan, a new purpose and commit to staying with it.  This year I’m ready to embark on another adventurous journey in God’s Word  as I commit to memorize passages of the Bible. I have already started this commitment and have received much joy and  just like reading the Bible is an attainable goal, so memorizing is also a goal which can be achieved.  Let’s ask the Lord to bless our commitment and He will give us the strength and time to fulfill it.
Purpose and Discipline=Structure and Order= Rest and Strength
 The Better Way: Reading The Bible Is Always Good, Reading The Bible With A Plan, Purpose And Commitment Is The Better Way
See Also:  Joy In Purpose
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A New Year, A New Purpose

Psalm 119:11 “Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against Thee.”
Psalm 119:105  “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.”
God’s Word is precious, and in this constantly changing fast paced world, it is encouraging to know that we do have access to something that is unchanging–the Word of God, the Holy Bible, the Scriptures, the Truth.  Malachi 3:6 “For I Am the Lord, I change not.”  God is immutable.  
Time is valuable for all of us and yet we need to take time to read God’s word and pray every day.  To do this requires that we must, like Daniel (Daniel 1:8) “purpose in our hearts” and discipline ourselves to this “purpose.” Such purpose and discipline is valuable because it gives us structure and order in our often hectic and chaotic lives and structure and order gives strength and rest. So the formula is: 
 Purpose and Discipline=Structure and Order=Strength and Rest
How do we go about finding help to read God’s Word daily?
There are many Bible Reading plans–one year, two year, three year etc. In the past, I followed a two year Read Through the Bible Program which had me read some of each of the Old Testament, Psalms, Proverbs and the New Testament everyday except Sunday.  I enjoyed the pace of this plan. 
 But for those of you who might find that program too aggressive, especially you moms with small children, I found a 4 year plan (see link below) that has you reading some of the New Testament and Psalms more than once, but if you follow it diligently you will read through the entire Bible in just 4 years!  The passages are not lengthy, so even if you miss a day or two you can easily “catch-up.”  As you complete the reading of a passage of God’s Word each day, just put a check in the little box and you will find you have a feeling of satisfaction that you have completed this worthwhile privilege.  May the Lord lead you and bless you as you seek Him through His word.
Print this out and cut it in bookmark size strips to place in your Bible.  Store the other 3 years in another pocket of your Bible.  You’ll be surprised at how quickly 4 years pass by
The Better Way: Seeking God daily through His Word is the Better Way.
See also: Joy In Purpose
See also: Self-Discipline
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Mary, The Mother of the Lord Jesus Christ

Luke 2:19 “But Mary treasured all these things, pondering them in her heart.”

      How I love to read the wonderful story of Mary, the mother of the Lord Jesus Christ. She was a young humble virtuous Jewish woman betrothed to a godly, upright Jewish man named Joseph. ( I use the word betrothed because it carries with it a much more binding relationship than the word engaged, which we use. Although not living together as husband and wife, a divorce was necessary to end the relationship.)  An angel, named Gabriel, came to Mary, calling her “highly favored” Luke 1:28.  How amazing is that? Then she was told some marvelous news, which she could hardly comprehend.  But she knew about the promised Messiah as recorded in Isaiah 7:14,


“Therefore the Lord Himself shall give you a sign;  Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall call His name Immanuel.”

     And she was looking expectantly for the Him.  She also knew of God’s covenant with Abraham as recorded in Genesis Chapter 12.  Yet, was she to be His mother?   In her innocence she asked, “How can this be?”  When the angel answered her, Mary humbly and tenderly believed and said, “Be it unto me according to thy word.”  Luke 1:38.
     Then the angel revealed to Joseph in a dream that the baby Mary was expecting was conceived by the Holy Spirit.  Being a righteous man, Joseph also believed and obeyed all he was commanded.   They were married.  As God’s Word says in Matthew 1:24 “Then Joseph, being aroused from sleep, did as the angel of the Lord commanded him and took to him his wife.”  So  he took Mary into his own home, but did not touch her until after Jesus was born.
      Traveling to visit her cousin Elisabeth, who was also expecting a child, whom we know was John the Baptist, she spoke these words, “My soul doth magnify the Lord, and my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Savior.”  Luke 1:46.  Yes, Mary was very aware that she, too, was a sinner and that she, too, was in need of a Savior.
     Then came the news about the census (Luke 2:1) and Mary and Joseph had to travel to Bethlehem, which was according to prophecy,   “But as for you, Bethlehem……from you One will go forth for Me to be ruler in Israel, His goings forth are from long ago, from the days of eternity.”  Micah 5:2  Most mothers are aware of the time when their baby’s birth is near, and so also was Mary.  I can picture her lovingly and with great care and anticipation, packing all the items necessary for her little baby boy’s birth.  She would need the long white cloth called “swaddling cloth” ( Luke 2:7)  and all those items necessary for His birth and care.  The Jews had many laws for washing and cleanliness and I feel sure these were not neglected.  Although the surroundings of Jesus birth were of the most humble in nature (so He could identify with even the most lowliest of people), that does not mean He was allowed to wallow in filth.
     The next amazing event for Mary that wonderful night was when the shepherds came and worshipped her little son.  Seeing her tiny helpless baby, yet knowing He was the Son of God, she must have marveled as she watched these shepherds show such reverance and awe for Him.  The Scriptures record that Mary “treasured all these things, pondering them in her heart.”  Luke 2:19
     So we see in Mary the characteristics of virtue, humility, tenderness and a believing heart, qualities that all of us as women should desire and strive for.
The Better Way: Living Our Lives To Honor And Glorify God Is The Better Way
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Trust In The Lord

Proverbs 3:5-6  “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.  In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths”

      The same grace that saved us and brought us to Christ is the same grace that will keep us in our Christian walk.  There is not a single moment in our life that we can do without the Lord Jesus Christ; therefore, our trust should be with all our heart.
     Many people use religion as a convenient service.  They will make all the decisions and all the plans according to their own desires and wills.  Then when things go awry they run to God demanding that He clear up the problem and make everything right.  But God’s Word says, “lean not unto thine own understanding.”  Our first efforts of the day should be toward our Heavenly Father, “in all thy ways acknowledge Him.”  From our heart should first come thankfulness and praise, next repentance, then requests for others and ourselves can be made.
Lay before Him all those things that will be facing you this day: those tasks, decisions and problems that you know are ahead.  Then as the verse says, “in all thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy path.”  In other words “Thy will be done.” Matthew 26:39.
     There will never be a time in our lives when we won’t have a problem of some kind or another, and to each of us that problem is very important and should not be regarded lightly by others.  Often we ask the Lord for the the problem to be removed and when God wills that it remain we fall into despair, wishing to run away (thinking then that the problem will go away).  Yes, perhaps that problem will be gone, but only to be replaced by a new one.  You see, if we can’t trust the Lord right here, right now, in the situation of this day, how can we ever think we can trust Him tomorrow when the situation changes and new problems arise? God want us to look to Him for this problem this day.  Then our promise for trusting is “He shall direct thy path.”  I surrender all to Him.
Theme: The Better Way: Surrendering All to God is The Better Way
Read also: Taste and See
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The Lord Is My Light

Micah 7:8b “When I sit in darkness, the Lord shall be a light unto me.”

     Our family has passed through Chattanooga, Tennessee several time while vacationing.  On one of those trips we visited a popular tourist spot called Ruby Falls.  By elevator, we were carried to the center of Lookout Mountain, where we walked along a well-worn path viewing the many cave sights.  It wasn’t long before in the distance we could hear the sound of falling water, which soon became louder and louder.  Then we entered a large dimly lit open area and the water sound was very near.  Suddenly spot lights were turned on and we could see the beautiful falls.  While we were enjoying the view, the guide offered to “show” us what darkness was like, and turned off the lights.  During those few moments my eyes desperately searched for a ray of light upon which to grasp, but there wasn’t any.  That’s the kind of darkness that can be “felt”, for the absence of all light makes the darkness have a feeling of entombment.
     The Egyptians experienced such a darkness during one of the ten plagues that God sent, “And the Lord said unto Moses, Stretch out thine hand toward heaven, that there may be darkness over the land of Egypt, even darkness which may be felt.  And Moses stretched forth his hand toward heaven; and there was a thick darkness in all of the land of Egypt three days; They saw not one another, neither rose any from his place for three days;”  Exodus 10:21-23a
     Many events in our lives can cause us to “sit in darkness.”  Perhaps you are plagued with sickness and pain in your body, or maybe your problem is a mental depression that overwhelms you.  Perhaps you are under the load of a serious financial burden or the death of a loved one.  Yes, the happenings in our lives that cause us to “sit in darkness” are too numerous to name, but there is one truth that we can cling to and that is “the Lord shall be a light unto me.”  During the plague of darkness in Egypt, the Bible says, “But all the Children of Israel had light in their dwelling.”  Exodus 10:23b.  There may be darkness all around us, but it cannot penetrate into the heart of a child of God, for “God is light, and in Him is no darkness at all.”  I John 1:15b.  Therefore we can boldly say with the Psalmist, “The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?  The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?” Psalm 27:1
Theme: The Better Way: Light is Good: Having the Lord As My Light Is Better
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Anchor of the Soul

Hebrews 6:19a  “Which hope we have as an anchor of the soul, both sure and steadfast.”

      The dictionary defines an anchor as “a heavy implement usually of iron or steel, with hooks or flukes to grip the bottom, attached to a cable and dropped from a ship or boat to hold it in place. To hold fast. To fix firmly. To secure.”  A boat out on the water must drop an anchor in order for it to remain in a fixed place, otherwise, the movement of the water, whether great or small, will cause the boat to move also.  Likewise, our souls also require an anchor.  What is your anchor today?  Is your soul anchored securely?  If the storms came and the winds blew fiercely would you be tossed to and fro so that your anchor came loose?  Let’s drop the anchor and see if we can find a secure place for our souls. 
     One place the anchor often grasps is the “Sands of Good Works.”  People are so sure that if they live a good life, if they do many good deeds, if they refrain from the major sins of this world and try their best, that God will surely give them credit toward heaven.  But like the shifting sands, these works come and go and are tainted with sin, and although the anchor may sink deep into the “Sands of Good Works ” at first, soon the sand shifts about, and the anchor is uncovered and they begin to drift because the only sure place for our anchor is not in self, but in our Hope, the Lord Jesus Christ.
    A second place where the anchor is caught is the “Seaweed of False Doctrine.”  Many say, because I believe “this and this” and because I know “that and that” about the Bible I am secure.  Like seaweed, they soon become a tangled mess, contradicting themselves because their beliefs are founded on man’s ideas and not on the Lord Jesus Christ.
      A third place where the anchor is caught is the “Decaying Wood of Self-Righteousness.”  An anchor can find it’s hold on the debris of an old sunken ship and for a while is caught and appears secure.  So, those that think they are good enough to go to heaven and that think they live above sin, will find security in their own selves.  Since we have no righteousness, since “all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.”  (Romans 3:23),  since “there is none good, no not one.”  (Romans 3:19,) since “all our righteousness is as filthy rags.”  (Isaiah 64:6) this security in self rots and breaks up and turns loose.  Then the individual is afloat and adrift again.
     But, there is no need to waste time dropping our anchor here and there, only to find that it is not secure.  Go straight to the One Who does not shift as the sand.  Go straight to the One Who is grounded because He is the Truth.  Go straight to the One Who will not decay or grow old. Go straight to the Lord Jesus Christ, that Hope, which is both “sure and steadfast.”
Theme: The Better Way: Having The Anchor for the Soul (the Lord Jesus Christ) is the Better Way
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Wearisome Words

Malachi 2:17a  “Ye have wearied the Lord with your words.”

     Just a few short generations ago, a man’s word was often his bond.  Many times no formal papers had to be signed, no notary’s seal needed to be imprinted.  When a verbal agreement was made, often a handshake sealed the spoken word.  Honor, commitment and trust were the bond’s that held together a man’s word.
     Today, talk is cheap and carries very little weight.  How weary we are of the ramblings of politicians who promise this and promise that.  How often we are disappointed by people in the business world who tell us one thing, only later to find out that it’s not true.  How discouraged we become as we see people use great swelling words for material gain and watch crowds follow them.  How disgusted we become at the abundance of words pouring forth from vain humans concerning their personal lives on the news.  Weary?  Yes, we become weary because so much is said, so much is philosophized upon and so little is accomplished.  It’s obvious there is much to criticize of the world’s words, but let’s turn the question inward.
     Have I wearied the the Lord with my words?  Do I whine and complain away my days when my lips should be filled with thanksgiving?  Am I double-tongued like the Bible says in James 3:10 where “out of the mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing?”  Have I idled away my time criticizing someone’s faults when I should have been praying for them?  Have I spent hours discussing plans for solving a problem when I should have laid the problem at the Lord’s feet?  Have I chatted vainly about this world with the lost when I should have told them about the Lord Jesus Christ?  Have I spoken harshly when a kind word would have been soothing?  Have I spoken hastily when a carefully chosen word would have spared hurt feelings?  Have I sung the Lord’s praises on Sunday, only to disregard His commands on Monday?
     Sadly, I myself will have to answer “yes” to all these questions.  Yes, I certainly have wearied the Lord with my words.  Recognizing this right now, I humbly repent, asking the Lord for His Grace that I might not weary Him any longer, but that my words, instead, might bring much honor and glory to His Name.
Psalm 19:13 “Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my Strength, and my Redeemer.
Theme: The Better Way: Speaking Carefully is Good: Speaking for the Lord Jesus Christ is Better
Also read:  Fixed Eyes
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